Who am I? Why am I like this? Why should I believe in myself? What is my value? These are all questions that often cover our minds and compel us to search for answers, to know our own worth. What is the value? We can say that value is the fundamental belief that makes us strong, inspires us, guides us and it is something that makes our work perfectly and as a result, it makes us different and special from others. Value can be anything honesty, cleverness, kindness and everything that sets you apart from others and makes you special and different.
To know our value it is necessary to understand that we are not special in all areas, all have different qualities, no one is equally good in all things. My suggestion is to choose to polish yourself over unhealthy competition. Try to figure out what field you are special in and present it in different ways instead of putting your mind in different things. Comparison never makes a person intelligent, bright and special. It is something that fills a person with arrogance, hatred and makes a person inferior.
Know that Value matters
Yes, value matters because everyone wants to live their life without the interference of society. Living with your values can guide you to be happier, calmer, more fulfilled. It can help you to do things that make you happy. It doesn’t matter what others think of you, if you know you’re right that way and there’s nothing wrong with doing so.
Undoubtedly society plays an important role and helps you, but one cannot ignore that there are people who never get tired of criticizing you. And don’t get tired of abusing you on your defeat. They are just there to take advantage of the moment. One might compare you to others, criticize you and your abilities, values and qualities.
One of the world most eminent scientist, Elbert Einstein said, “Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid”. The same applies to us too. If you know what you are good at and still think, you can do this or that, then, of course, you will not know your worth. You will spend your whole life believing that you are good for nothing. Think about yourself and know your worth.
Believe in yourself, know your worth
To know your ability, the most important thing is to believe in yourself, accept yourself and your reality, love yourself and keep moving forward. If you want to go higher, you have to ignore the things that frustrate you and stops you to move forward. If you know drawing and crafting well, then accept it as your special value and polish your skills day by day. Everything has its own value. Nothing is ‘higher and small’, it is just the creation of human beings.
They classify the object on the basis of respect and this classification is not always necessary. It allows others to doubt their own values. And while self-doubt is evil, it never helps you to find out your worth. Self-doubt is good sometimes but not always. If you know your potential then accept it wisely. It doesn’t matter how others will treat you. Because no one is paying for you, except your institutions, teachers and parents. These are the most important pillars of everyone’s life.
You are worth more than you think
Keep in your mind that you are the most important person in your life because you do a lot for your good days.
It’s okay, if you fail in your journey, there is no need to worry. Only you know what phase you have gone through.
Life is too short. Don’t take it as a movie. Dreaming is good but striving for your dreams is important, if you don’t try to achieve it, then your dreams are not a matter of concern. We are all good at one or the other. So, analyze your quality, capability and aptitude, be it small or high. you can do anything.
We rise high with small steps, we never rise high in the blink of an eye. Never let yourself hold you back if others criticize you. Close your mind by believing that whatever you are about to do is good for you and others and that your steps should be meaningful.